Be Ok Being Misunderstood

Don’t be under the false impression That people around you should “understand” you In fact, you should always assume that people will misunderstand you Why? Because they are not you They don’t have all the: personal experiences data context insights that you have But don’t let that discourage you from doing what you’re doing Hopefully you have very good reasons for why you’re doing what you’re doing But remember that you will never be able to explain that to anyone...

February 27, 2024

No Kids? No Future

We need to create a future Where it’s much easier for men and women to decide to build a family with kids Right now, for most Millenials and Gen Z This is incredibly difficult Women feel like they will kill their careers if they have kids This is unacceptable I don’t know exactly how we do this But we have to Because otherwise our future looks grim and I’m perfectly aware that there are people out there that have no interest in having kid...

February 22, 2024

What does a NO mean?

What does a NO mean? (in a professional context) A “No” simply means this: We are saying no to hiring you right at this moment in time according to the data and context you have provided in your job application and the stalking we have done on you on Google, X, LinkedIn, etc Because it is not immediately clear to us that by hiring you we would be making a good decision...

February 20, 2024

Offending People Is the Worst Thing You Can Do Nowadays

We live in interesting times… We’re letting the feelings and emotions of sensitive 20 year olds (that are still discovering themselves) Guide public policy The worst thing you can do nowadays Is offend someone with your words and make a person outraged for 2 seconds What’s so bad about that? In fact, in my book that’s a great thing Being outraged is the first step Towards learning something new and foreign...

February 20, 2024

Why Elon Musk Always Wins

Wanna know why a guy like Elon Musk Will almost always win? Because he’s a billionaire But he has no problem losing all of it and sleeping on the floor Like a homeless person If that’s what he has to do For something he strongly believes in I’m not saying this is a good thing or a recommended thing But it’s just a fact He’s that hardcore

February 20, 2024

Let's Normalize Feeling Bad Around People

We need to normalize feeling shitty when we’re around other people A person who is seriously having a bad day (for whatever reason) should not have to fake being ok around family, friends and co-workers Human beings are not supposed to act the exact same every single day We have ups and downs This is natural and if you’re suffering from a mental health disorder These ups and down are just a natural part of your life...

February 19, 2024

I Don't Believe in Soulmates

I don’t believe in the concept of one: “soulmate” Instead, I believe in the concept of: “soul clusters” Let me explain: How many people are there on planet Earth? 8 billion people Do I believe that there is only 1 person out of these 8 billion people that is my soulmate No, that sounds ridiculous to me Rather, I believe that there are a reasonably sized group of people Spread around the world...

February 18, 2024

What if Mahatma Gandhi Was Reasonable?

Imagine if Mahatma Gandhi had listened to his family and friends and would have been more reasonable and gotten a nice job as a lawyer making a good salary : ) What would the world look like then?

February 10, 2024

Don't Live Your Life on Autopilot

Reminder to myself: Nothing great will happen if you live your life on autopilot.

February 9, 2023

Don't Worry About Current Salary Amount

Reminder to myself: Don’t worry at all about your salary amount. Especially don’t compare with others. Your income is a lagging indicator of what you’ve spent the last 5 years doing.

February 8, 2023